How to Build Mutual Attraction With Your Ex (To Win Them Back)

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In this video, I’m going to talk about ways to rebuild mutual attraction with your ex. If you’ve seen any of my other videos here on YouTube, then you’ll know that this is absolutely critical to winning him or her back.

You can’t simply convince your ex to take you back with words alone… in fact, that almost always makes things worse. Whatever you do, do NOT try to talk your way back into your ex’s heart, because that’s a recipe for disaster. No amount of logic and reasoning is going to convince your ex that they should give your relationship another shot… instead, you have to tap into their EMOTIONS, and essentially make your ex fall back in love with you so that they’ll ignore logic and give in to their feelings. That’s how you rebuild a romantic relationship… and there really isn’t any other way to win your ex back.

Of course, the question now is HOW do you make your ex fall back in love with you? How do you re-build that attraction that your ex once felt for you, so that he or she actually decides on their own that they WANT to get back together? Well, there’s a number of things you can do to make this happen. I’m only going to give you a few examples here in this video, but I describe these methods in full detail in my Ex Factor Guide program, so if you’re interested in learning more please visit www.BreakupBrad.com and sign up for the program to get more info and guidance on re-building attraction.

The first thing you can do to re-build attraction between you and your ex is actually quite counter-intuitive, and it’s something I’ve talked about a lot in some of my other videos here on YouTube…. simply STOP TALKING to your ex.

Yes, you heard me correctly: ignoring your ex and shutting down all communication with him or her is an effective means to make them fall back in love with you. As crazy as this sounds, this works extremely well.

I call this the “no contact” method, and you can learn more about it in some of my other videos, so I’m not going to go into detail here… but essentially, there’s two reasons that ignoring your ex helps to re-build attraction. First of all, when you simply vanish from your ex’s life all of a sudden, you’re “shocking” him or her into realizing what life is like when you’re not around. On its own, this can sometimes be enough to make your ex beg for you to take them back.

It also gives your ex time to let go of the negative memories that may have led to your breakup, and revive some of the happier, more nostalgic ones. It’s human nature to subconsciously purge negative memories over time, so by ignoring your ex you’re simply allowing this to happen naturally… the result is that your ex will start to forget about the significance of the negative aspects of your relationship that led to the breakup, and focus more on the happy times you shared together.

Lastly, this technique also taps in to another element of human nature, which is the desire to want what you can’t have. Yes, this cliche really is true, and it’s been proven by numerous studies that both men and women are attracted to members of the opposite sex that aren’t romantically available…. so, by disappearing from your ex’s life, you’re making yourself appear less ‘available’, which helps to subconsciously make your ex more attracted to you. This by itself isn’t going to save your relationship, but it’s still a useful tactic and further enhances the effectiveness of the “no contact” method.

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